HOW GARY AND RUTH ANN MET
Gary
and Ruth Ann (Bell) met at Hastings College, Hastings, Nebraska on October 2,
1963. It's an easy date to remember because that is the birthday of Gary's
sister, Karen.
Hastings
College is a small Presbyterian liberal arts college (then about 800 students)
in the heartland of Nebraska. Ruth Ann (from Cheyenne, Wyoming)
chose Hastings because she wanted to attend a small church-related school and
to be near her grandparents who lived only 30 miles away in Grand Island.
Gary
completed two semesters at the University of Nebraska Lincoln before he joined
the Army in the fall of 1958. He enrolled
at Hastings College in the spring of 1962, immediately after his discharge from
Army active duty. By then he had several
scholarship offers from colleges with rifle teams, but Gary did not feel that collegiate
rifle shooting, as it was practiced at the time, would help him prepare for the
1962 World Championship and 1964 Olympics, which were his primary shooting goals.
College rifle teams had matches every week and were still shooting on the
old, big NRA targets. He felt he could
improve his scores more by focusing on his training for the next international
championship rather than on traveling around the country shooting matches that had
limited value.
Another reason he chose
Hastings College, which did not have a rifle team, was because he wanted to
become involved in other activities like student government. Gary put himself through college with the GI
Bill, National Guard pay, working as a dorm counselor and Army active duty pay
during the summers. Especially after his victory in the Tokyo
Olympics there were honoraria from speaking engagements, but those generally
had to be limited to mileage and actual expenses in order to protect his
amateur status and eligibility to participate in the Olympics. Then it was forbidden for an Olympic
participant to receive any payments related to his athletic performances.
The Hastings
College student body ate breakfast and lunch cafeteria style, but for dinner,
the students ate together family style with six students seated at each table
in the dining room. It was open
seating, and by luck, or fate, Gary arrived late on the 2nd of
October so he took the first empty seat he could find. He ended up sitting next to Ruth Ann. By the time dinner was over, Gary had asked
Ruth Ann to the weekend football game (their first date). When he returned to his dorm, he wrote her
name on the inside cover of his Greek textbook so he "wouldn't forget
it."
Ruth
Ann returned to her dorm and told Jan Wood (an upperclassman) about meeting
Gary, and having a date, and Jan said "Ruth Ann, do you know who he
*IS?* He's
FAMOUS! He has gold medals on display
at Bellevue House!" (the Student
Union). Gary's World Championship gold medals from
Cairo were on display there at the time.
Dating
continued, often at the library to study or at the National Guard Armory where
Gary used the range for his training.
Hastings College had a strict curfew for women, and Ruth Ann had to be
back in her dorm and checked in by 9pm on weekday nights.
Gary and Ruth Ann attend a spring formal at Hastings College. Ruth Ann's mother made the dress. |
During
the spring semester, Gary was elected to be the Student Body President for the 1964-1965
school year, which was to be his senior year.
That summer he qualified to go to the Tokyo Olympics in October (blogs on the 1964 Games are coming). After he returned from Tokyo with a gold medal,
there were huge demands on his time that included a trip to the White House,
national TV appearances and speaking engagements. He ended up missing 10 of the 16 weeks in the
1964 fall semester, but with generous support from the Hastings College faculty
and class notes provided by his friends, he completed all his courses. As long as he turned in his papers, took all the
tests and got his other work done, he was OK.
Gary
and Ruth Ann became engaged on January 25, 1965. Gary bought the engagement ring from
Meyer's Jewelers in Hastings. The owner
was the father of a very good friend and classmate of Gary. Gary asked Ruth Ann if she would like to take
a walk in a nearby park, where he presented the ring with these words,
"Will you accept this ring as our pledge of a lifetime together?"
Gary and Ruth Ann's engagement picture
Gary
graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in History (Magna Cum Laude) from Hastings
College on May 23,1965. Gary and Ruth
Ann were married on June 13, 1965 in her hometown of Cheyenne, Wyoming.
Gary's college graduation day |
June 13, 1965 |
After the summer of 1965, Gary and Ruth
Ann moved to San Anselmo, California, where Gary was enrolled as a divinity
student at San Francisco Theological Seminary (SFTS). While he was in the Army, he began to feel
that he had a call to the Christian ministry, having been encouraged in this
regard by his hometown pastor, Rev. James Darroch. Enrolling in a seminary became a way to
explore that call. SFTS at that time
had a reputation for outstanding scholarship and an esteemed faculty.
During
his three years in Seminary, his sense of call diminished, even as he excelled
in Hebrew Old Testament language studies.
After his first year of Hebrew, his professor, Dr. David Noel Freedman,
appointed Gary to be one of his Teaching Assistants, a position normally
reserved for post-graduate students. Gary
calls Dr. Freedman his greatest teacher and the person who taught him the most about
the disciplines of real scholarship. He
graduated from seminary on June 13, 1968 with a Master of Arts in Religion
(Summa Cum Laude). By the time he graduated he had already taken several
post-graduate courses in Ancient Semitic languages and had received a
post-graduate fellowship for a year of study in Germany. That would become a time to decide his
future.
Gary teaching a Hebrew class at SFTS |